Edward or Jacob?

I remember asking my high school students who they preferred, Edward or Jacob when Twilight was so popular. Edward was, by far, the most popular. I got a little upset…Why??? I asked. The girls just loved the notion of the strong boy taking charge, making the decisions and being sweet to them. But I said: “What about Jacob? He respects Bella’s independence and her capabilities, and he’s sweet to her, that ‘s the kind of you guy you girls should want!!”.

I know, we were raised with Prince Charming saving the girl, whether it was Cinderella, Snow White or Bella! And for some reason, even in the 21st century this still seems to be a need for us.

As women, I believe we can have the best of both worlds: being independent, competent and self-reliant AND having a wonderful man in our lives who supports us in our goals and dreams. Being a partner in a relationship is so much more fulfilling than being a dependent. Don’t cut yourself short, you can have it all!

Have a man in your life because you WANT him, not because you NEED him!